How to deal with death?

Ironically, the best way to deal with death is to talk about it.
It's Cheng Beng and the old folks are talking about property.
Preferably corner lot and with prosperous sound of the lot numbers.
Aiyoyo, die die also must think of empat ekor.

Yes, you are right, we talk and tease about it this way.

When the old folk say, "i am bringing this and this that you like to eat." It is referring to the living, not the death. And it's referring to me.
Well, dont bring food that you don't like to eat to pray, otherwise you will be the one eating, and not the deceased.